Friday, May 31, 2013

Acknowledge the negative within you and transform it into something positive

Embrace your Destiny and walk in his grace - he is your strength when you are weak, he lifts you up when you can't reach.....

Again, he has blown me away......you all know, how hard these last weeks were for me, my brain was on a constant overload - scatterbrained is not even describing how I felt.... - I forgot one thing with the other, and my brain was running a thousand miles an hour - well, I think I can say, I know I am on the mend......and that is only, because God has shown me, that he is always with me......

I don't have to know where I am headed in the natural realm, all I need to know, is, that I am headed, where he wants me to go.... - and that whatever I will decide, he will be with me - he will use each and every situation to bring me closer to my destiny.....he has been showing me this for the last year and something now, but I would still fall back and view things from my worldly perspective. This morning, I got it - I don't need to fret, I don't need to have it all together, I don't have to be super woman, no, quite the contrary is true, the more I run to him, when I am overwhelmed, when I have no clue, what to do and where to go, he will take me by the hand, and show me the way - each time I allow him to see my weakness, I give him the chance to come through for me......

And since I get it more fully everyday - this morning, I hope I got it once and for all, that I won't ever put those worldly glasses on anymore - I never liked them to begin with. Just this morning, when I read an e-mail from my ex, where he accused me of always seeing things from the negative angle - whereas I see him being the one, who is always critical and looks through the negative lens - I realized, that truly others are mainly mirroring our own tendencies back to us..... - all we have to do, is to embrace it, and let go of that particular aspect of our being - it's not bad, it's just there and wants to be seen. Once we acknowledge the presence and don't try to push it into our shadow, which ultimately frustrates us, and shows up at moments, when we least need it or expect it - it can finally leave - or even stay, as being discerning (critical) is not a bad thing, neither is being aggressive, angry or a bunch of other emotions that we have labeled bad - it's just how we use it i n our lives that makes it bad. Once we turn it over to God, he can transform it into something beautiful.

I choose Joy, I choose Hope, I choose to see the good in everything, even in the blessings in disguise - I look at others and see myself - and since I know, that in my heart, I have never done anything, but tried to do things right, I have to see that in them as well, and forgive and forget immediately - we are all in the same boat. None is better none is worse - we are all always teacher and student in any life situation.

Let's embrace that: when we think someone is criticizing us unjustly, we have the same tendency within ourselves, when someone loves us, and sees only the good, then we have that in us as well - God wants to purify us, that we will be like him, and he knows, that we need to be rubbed the wrong way for our negative character traits to be removed and purified.....and the ones that are in our lives, that really bring out the worst in us, are actually there, because God wants us to learn the lesson: it's always about us - we need to be transformed from glory to glory - each and everyone here on earth is only responsible for his or her own actions - but we all try to be judges and critics of  our fellow man - that's where we derive our importance from.

I have some very profound news for you: Because you are here, you are important - you have a destiny, because you breathe. God wants you here today, because he has a plan for you.....not for you changing the person next to you, but for you to reach your full potential. He will work in the heart of all his children, to bring them to their destiny. He doesn't need your help :)

And he will provide the same lesson over and over again, until we finally understand, that he is our sole provider and that he has our best interest at heart, even if that means, he has to put difficult, negative, even mean people in our lives...... - well we are all that - but we are also all love, compassion, hope, peace, mercy and forgiveness - let your light shine - that's what you came here for......

I am giving up fixing people and I will forever see only his face in them, and let him do the work in me - what about you, my friends.....???

Be blessed - I love you from the bottom of my heart......
#godissooogood :)

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